Do It Yourself VT Weddings
Plan your perfect Vermont wedding your way with The Wilburton's DIY wedding options. For couples who want complete creative control - from choosing your own caterer to designing every detail - we offer two stunning historic estates near The Wilburton that put you in the director's chair. Cook in commercial kitchens, bring your own vendors, and create the celebration that matches your vision and budget. The Battenkill Valley Mansion accommodates intimate celebrations up to 75 guests, while Levity Mountain Farm's event barn hosts up to 150. Both properties include overnight lodging for your wedding party and guests, giving you a true Vermont destination wedding weekend with the flexibility to make it authentically yours.
Who DIY Weddings Are Perfect For
"Is a DIY Wedding Right for You?"
DIY Vermont weddings excel for creative couples who want complete vendor choice, families who love cooking together and want to prepare their own feast, budget-conscious planners seeking exceptional value, and anyone with a specific vision that doesn't fit traditional wedding packages. If you dream of a backyard-style celebration with your favorite food truck, want your chef uncle to cater the rehearsal dinner, or envision a festival-style weekend with multiple meals and activities, DIY gives you the freedom to make it happen exactly as you imagine.
Battenkill Valley Mansion
Battenkill Valley Mansion - Intimate DIY Celebrations
Just half a mile from The Wilburton sits the Battenkill Valley Mansion - another Albert Gilbert turn-of-the-century estate on five private acres. This 15-bedroom mansion sleeps 34 guests and hosts celebrations for up to 75 guests in summer and fall, 50 in winter and spring. The historic ballroom provides indoor celebration space, while outdoor ceremony options include a gazebo, pond-side settings, and wooded ceremony circles beneath towering trees.
The commercial kitchen lets you cook your own feast or bring pre-approved caterers. Fifteen bedrooms mean your wedding party and close family stay together all weekend. The property features a bonfire area, picnic tables, BBQ setup, and lawn games - perfect for rehearsal dinners and welcome parties. Battenkill guests enjoy access to The Wilburton's pool and tennis courts (blackout times may apply during peak season).
Stats: SLEEPS 34 | 15 BEDROOMS | 12 BATHROOMS | UP TO 75 GUESTS
Levity Mountain Farm
Levity Mountain Farm - Rustic Barn Celebrations
For authentic Vermont barn weddings, Levity Mountain Farm offers 200 acres of organic farmland with mountain views and a historic event barn accommodating up to 150 guests. This working farm - run by the Levis family - combines rustic agricultural beauty with DIY flexibility. The six-bedroom farmhouse and two-bedroom cottage sleep 26 total guests, with additional lodging available at The Wilburton half a mile away.
The weekend wedding package includes tables, chairs, plates, glasses, and flatware for 100 guests (rentals needed above that capacity). You're responsible for cleaning the barn after your event, keeping costs down while maintaining venue quality. The property features bonfire areas, picnic tables, BBQ setup, and a pond - creating multiple gathering spaces across your wedding weekend for truly memorable Vermont farm celebrations.
Stats: SLEEPS 26 | 8 BEDROOMS | 6 BATHROOMS | UP TO 150 GUESTS IN BARN
What You Control vs. What's Provided
What's Included: Both properties provide the venue, overnight lodging, tables and chairs, basic table settings (plates, glasses, flatware), and outdoor celebration spaces. Linens and end-of-stay housekeeping are included in your package. Dogs are welcome for an additional $125 per dog.
What You Arrange: Catering (cook in the commercial kitchen or bring pre-approved caterers), rentals beyond what's provided (linens at Battenkill, specialty furniture, lighting), florals, photography, music, and all other vendors. We share our vetted vendor list developed over 36 years - excellent local caterers, florists, photographers, musicians, and rental companies we've worked with successfully for countless weddings.
Insurance Required: Events over 34 guests require event and alcohol hosting insurance - standard coverage protecting both you and the venue.
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